That you know you're being 'monitored' regularly? Read is okay, but not the feeling of being 'monitored' then later used as an emotive manipulative tool against myself. I have to be so strong all the time if not my soul would have been severely eroded by now.
Actually I'm goin' to delete off this blog soon. It's just a matter of when.
My other half is monitoring me so badly, it gets screwed up even more.
U sacrifice personal space, freedom of thought and happiness for a relationship. Many a time, I wonder whether love is a chore. Until lately, someone who was facing some relationship woes asked me the same question. I think when it's not compatible with our lives, then it becomes a chore. If not, how can love become a chore?
Lately I chanced upon this very insightful email about finding and keeping a life partner.
WHAT KEEPS A RELATIONSHIP STRONG IS: 1. TRUST 2. COMMUNICATION 3. INTIMACY 4. A SENSE OF HUMOR 5. SHARING TASKS 6. SOME GETAWAY TIME WITHOUT BUSINESS OR CHILDREN 7. DAILY EXCHANGES (meal, shared activity, hug, call, touch, notes, etc.) 8. SHARING COMMON GOALS AND INTERESTS 9. GIVING EACH OTHER SPACE TO GROW WITHOUT FEELING INSECURE 10. GIVING EACH OTHER A SENSE OF BELONGING AND ASSURANCES OF COMMITMENT If these qualities are missing, the relationship will erode asresentment withdrawal, abuse, neglect, and dishonesty; and pain will replace
Me: Multi-faceted under a layer of skin. Many modules take place beneath my brain shell. Think simple enough; you can understand most of me. Love creative analogies that make sense.
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